Life is a choice

Jerry was a restaurant manager in America. He was always in good spirit and always had something positive to say. If someone asked him about what he was doing, he would always reply, "If I can be better, I'd rather be twins!"

Many ministers in the restaurant out if Jerry changed jobs, so they can still follow him from one restaurant to another restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was out was because of her attitude.

Jerry was a natural motivator. if employees are having a bad day, he was always there, telling the employee how to look at the positive side of the situation being experienced.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I met Jerry and asked him, "I do not understand! No way a person becomes a positive minded people all the time.

How can you do? "Jerry replied," Every morning I wake up and say to myself, I have two options today. I can choose to have in a good mood or vote in a bad mood. I always vote in a good mood. Every time something happens, I can choose to be a victim or I learned from that. I always choose to learn from it. Each have someone make a complaint, I can choose to receive their complaints, or I can take the positive side .. I always choose the positive side. "


"But it is not always that easy," I protested. "Yes, yes," said Jerry, "Life is a choice. When you remove the whole issue, every situation is a choice. You choose how to react to every situation. You choose how people around you is affected by feeling. You chose to were in good or bad. It is your choice how you live. "

A few years later, I heard the unfortunate Jerry unthinkable happened in the restaurant business: let the back door was not locked in one morning and robbed by three armed men. When trying to open the safe, her hands shaking with nerves and a combination dial. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and immediately taken to the hospital.

After undergoing surgery for 18 hours and a week of intensive care, Jerry was able to leave the hospital with some parts of the bullet still inside his body. I saw Jerry about six months after the disaster.

When I asked Jerry how he was doing, he replied, "If I can be better, I'd rather be a twin. Want to see where my wounds?" I looked down to see his wounds, but I was also asked what he thought the time of the robbery.

"The first thing that crossed my mind was that I had to lock the back door," Jerry replied. "Then after they shot and I was lying on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or die. I chose to live."

"Are you not afraid?" I asked. Jerry continued, "The great medical experts. They kept saying that I would recover. But when they wheeled me to the emergency room and saw the expression on the faces of the doctors and nurses I was so scared.'s Eyes they say 'This man will die'. I know I must take action. "

"What are you doing?" I asked. "There was a fat nurse who asked me," said Jerry. "He asked if I had allergies. 'Yes' I replied ..

The doctors and nurses stopped working and they were waiting for an answer. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets! " Amid the laughs them I say, 'I choose to live. Help me be operated as a living, not dead '. "

Jerry can live because of the expertise of doctors, but also because of his amazing life. I learned from him that every day you can choose whether you will enjoy your life or hate it.

One thing that really belongs to you who can not be controlled by others is the attitude of your life, so if you can control it and everything else in life will be easier.

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Behind the story of Father

Typically, for a young adult woman, who was working diperantauan, who joined her husband's wandering outside the city or abroad, who were at school or college away from her parents .....

Will often miss with her mother.

And what about Dad?

Maybe because she is more often called to see you doing every day,

but you know, if it Papa was a reminded to call you Mama?

Maybe once when you're little, Mama was the one who more often take you to tell or berdongeng,

but you know that after Papa worked and with tired faces Papa Mama always ask about are you and what do you do all day?

By the time you are still a little girl ......

Papa usually taught her little daughter to ride a bike.


And after Papa could pick up, Daddy would help in the wheels off the bike ...

Then Mama said: "Not yet Dad, do not be removed once the wheels help him",

Mama was afraid sweet daughter fell and hurt ....

But realize you?

Papa with confidence that will let you, look at you, and take care of pedaling carefully because she knew her little girl SURE CAN.

By the time you're crying or whining to ask the doll new toy, Mama's looking at you with pity.

But Papa would say emphatically: "Sure, we buy it later, but not now"

Know ye, Papa did it because he does not want you to be a spoiled child with all the demands that can always be fulfilled?

When you're a cold, Papa was too afraid to yell sometimes a bit by saying:

"It's the tell! You do not drink cold water!".

Mama's differs from the notice and advise you gently.

Know, then Papa really worried about you.

When you've got a teenager ....

You start demanding at Papa permission to go out at night, and you stand firm and say: "No!".

Did you know that Daddy did it to take care of you?

Because of Daddy, you is something very - very unusual precious ..

After that you're mad at Daddy, and entered the room, slamming the door ...

And who came knocking doors and persuade you to not upset the Mom ....

Know ye, that it was Papa closed his eyes and held her in her inner turmoil,

That Papa was eager to follow your wishes, but once again he MUST take care of you?

As when a guy started to call, or even come to the house to see you, Daddy would put the world face the coolest .... : ')

Papa occasionally eavesdropping or peeping when you're chatting together in the living room ..

You realize, if heart Papa felt jealous?

When you start to believe, and Papa to loosen some rules to leave the house for you, you will be forced to violate his evening hours.

So did Daddy was sitting in the living room, and waiting for home with a heart that is very concerned ...

And after feeling worried that go on - Late ...

When she saw her little daughter came home late at night will harden the hearts Papa and Papa scold .. .

You realize, that this was because it was feared that Papa will soon come?

"That little girl will soon go away Papa"

After graduating from high school, Dad will be a little force to become a doctor or engineer.

Know that all coercion is done solely Papa - the eyes just thinking about your future later ...

But then Papa kept smiling and support you when your choice is not in accordance with the wishes Papa

When you become an adult girl ....

And you have to go to college another town ...

Papa had to let you at the airport.

Did you know that Papa body was stiff to hold you?

Papa just smiled and gave this advice - that, and told to be careful. .
And Papa wanted to cry like Mama and hug you tight.

What Papa do is remove a little tear in the corner of his eye, and pat your shoulder saying "Take care of yourself well yes dear".

Daddy did it all for you STRONGER ... strong to go and become adults.

While you need money to finance half of the money and life, the first person is frowned Papa.

Papa must have tried hard to find a way so that his son could feel the same with his friends the other.

When the request is no longer just asked for a new doll, and Dad knew he could not give what you want ...

The words that came out of Papa's mouth is: "No. .... I can not!"

Whereas in the inner Papa, he was eager to say "Yes dear, I'll buy you Daddy".

Did you know that at the time Papa was failing to make her smile?

It's time you graduated as a scholar.

Papa was the first to stand up and give you applause.

Papa will smile with pride and satisfaction of seeing "the little girl who did not grow up spoiled work, and has become someone"

Until now, a friend of Man came to the house and asked permission to take you from her Papa.

Papa would be very careful about giving permission ..

Because Papa knows .....

That man is what will replace him later.

And finally ....

Did you know, on that happy day Papa went round the stage for a while, and crying?

Papa cry because papa was very happy, and Papa prayed ....

In a quiet prayer to God, Papa said: "O God my job well done ....

A funny little girl and I love has become a beautiful woman ....

After that Papa can only await with his grandchildren who occasionally come to visit ...

With that hair and the white ....

And the body and arms are no longer strong enough to protect you from danger ....

Papa has completed its work ....

Daddy, Daddy, Dad, or Abah we ...

Is a figure that must always appear strong ...

Even when he was not strong to not cry ...

He had to look firmly even when he wants to pamper you. .

And he was the first person who always believed that "YOU CAN" in all things ..

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Carrots story, Eggs, and Coffee [story motivation]

One child complained to his father about his life and ask why life is so hard for him. He does not know how to deal with and almost gave up. He was tired to fight. It seems every time one problem is completed, new problems arise.

His father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled 3 pots with water and set it on fire.

After the water in these pots boil. He put the carrots in the pan first, the egg in the second pot, and he put the coffee powder in the pan last. He let it boil without saying a word. The child is silent and waited impatiently, wondering what he was doing his father. After 20 minutes, the father put the fire out.

He set aside the carrots and put it in the bowl, lift the egg and put it in another bowl, and pour the coffee in another bowl.

Then he asked her, "What do you see, son?" "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," replied the boy. Her father took her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. He did so and noted that they were soft. His father then asked him to take egg and break it. After remove the skin, he found a boiled egg is hardened.

Finally, he asked her to sip coffee. She smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. After that, the boy asks, "What does all this, Father?"


His father explained that they had faced the same adversity, boiling water, but each reacted differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. But after boiled, carrots become soft and tender. Egg had been fragile. Thin shell protecting its liquid interior. But after the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique. Once inside the boiling water, they changed the water.

"Where are you including?," Said his father. "When adversity knocks on your door, how you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or coffee? "What about you? Are you the carrot that seems hard, but with the pain and adversity do you wilt and become soft and lose your strength. "

"Do you the egg, which starts off with a malleable heart? With a dynamic spirit, but after the death, heartbreak, divorce or dismissal have you become hardened and stiff. From the outside looks the same, but are you bitter and tough with a heart and soul of rigid?. "

"Or are you like the coffee bean? The bean changes the hot water, things that cause pain, to achieve maximum flavor at a temperature of 100 degrees Celsius. When the water reaches the temperature of the hottest, the coffee was delicious. "

"If you're like the coffee bean, when things are at their worst, you will be getting better and making things better around you."

"There's a giant in every person and there is nothing that can stop it except a huge giant's holding his own"

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[Words] Power Motivation

1. Do not go for looks because it can deceive. Do not go for wealth even that fades away. Attracted to someone who makes you smile, because only a smile that can make the days of darkness seem bright. Hope you find someone like that.

2. Dream what you want to dream go to the places you want to go. Be what you want, because you only have one life and one chance to do the things you want to do.

3. When one door of happiness close, another door opened. But often we took so long at the closed door, so do not see the other doors opened for us.

4. The best friend is he who can sit swinging on the porch with you, without saying a word, and then you're left with the feeling of having a long conversation with him.

5. It's true that we do not know what we have until we lose it, but it's also true that we do not know what we've been missing until it arrives.

6. Look at everything from glasses others. If it hurts you, it probably does hurt other people today too.

7. The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not change the picture we want. If not, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

8. The people who most berbahagiapun not always have the best things, they just make the best of everything that comes along in life.

9. Maybe God wants us to meet with some of the wrong people before meeting the right person, we must understand how to be grateful for that gift.


10. It takes only seminit to assess a person, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

11. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who seek and those who try. Because only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

12. Love comes to those who still hope even though've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though've been betrayed, to those who still love even though've been hurt before.

13. It hurts to love someone who does not love you, but more painful is to love someone and never have the courage to express your love to him.

14. Never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still feel able, do not ever say you do not love him anymore if you can not let go.

15. Giving all your love to someone is no guarantee he'll return your love. Do not expect love in return, just wait until the love growing in his heart, but if not, be content it grew in yours.

16. There are things that really wants you to hear, but you would never hear from the people you expect to say it. However, do not be deaf to hear from people who say it with all my heart.

17. When you were born, you cried and the people around you smile. Live your life so that when you die, you smile and the people around you is crying.

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A collection of motivation words 3

* Dare to do daring responsible.

* Pride is the beginning of the destruction.

* No one is perfect. Those who want to learn from mistakes is wise. Sad to see people insist that they are right even if proven wrong.

* When there is a hope, there is a will.

* What is the difference between obstacles and opportunities? The difference lies in our attitude in looking at him. There is always a difficulty in every opportunity; and there's always opportunity in every difficulty.

* Life is beautiful.

* Do not be discouraged by the existing problem in your life because of the reply given to you will make you become mature, patient, and steadfast.

* Success is not measured by the position one achieves in life, but from the difficulties been overcome while trying to succeed.

* Stop looking for an excuse to cover up failure. Begin to act to achieve success.

* Do not have the shortcomings as an excuse to not succeed, but make him a challenge to pass reply.


* Success is a journey, because it was NOTHING FAILS person on this earth. There are those who choose to STOP faster.

* To succeed, you must be able to speak; to talk, you have to believe in yourself; to believe in yourself, you must lead yourself.

* Self-discipline is the most valuable capital for a success.

* Actually, not because it is hard to be afraid. But, because we are not courageous then everything becomes difficult. It is difficult not mean can not be solved! Be patient, tenacious, and tough.

* Action is Power! Action is power! All the words will only be MAXIMUM if based on the number of actions and accompanying action.

* Fight for what you dare to do!

* To love yourself means to learn about the advantages and disadvantages of self. Also, willing to accept what is and willing to develop the talents we have!

* COMMITMENT like a promise that must be kept to himself.

* Confidence is the strength of great battering ram!

* I Can Do It!

* There are THREE important things in life. First: get what we want. Second: keep what we've got. Third: to enjoy what we already have.

* A piece of a smile tugging at his lips, if they can continue to decorate our faces, can bring enlightenment to anyone. Therefore, tebarlah smile, although in the face of unpleasant things. That is the essence of maturity in facing this life.

* We have to ensure and promote the proper things we achieve.

* When you feel tired and bored, we need to take a break. But remember! Rest does not mean stop forward or stop fighting. Only for refreshment breaks. After that, let's get up and fight even harder!

* Pick Quality Over Quantity.

* Establish a firm SELF DISCIPLINE!

* Praise is more delicious than criticism! But praise can make us complacent. Let's take the criticism as motivation to clean themselves and accept the compliment as a sign that we must remain humble and continue to develop themselves.

* If you want to succeed, we must have BE PATIENT! Have properties TEGAR!!

* Sincerely grateful for what we have today

* If better is possible, than good is not enough.

* If best is possible, is better than not enough.

* Tenacious was the determination that contains enthusiastic attitude, determined, strong, proactive and not give up.

* Get used to maintain positive thoughts, positive attitude, and positive action. Thus we will live this life full of gratitude, enthusiasm, and great success!

* Do the best every day, and success will follow you. This is the eternal truth, to be successful is to do (do) the best every day rather than solely to (be) the best / greatest / richest / fastest in this life. With this way of thinking, you can feel the pleasure in living every moment of this life's challenges and be able to endure even the worst failures because success and happiness into your personal property.

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A collection of motivation words 2

* Freedom is the soul's ability to be able to judge all things without any pressure in determining attitudes.

* Do not judge the book by its cover. Do not judge people just by appearance but by the attitude / actions, his words also.

* Just Do It.

* The greatest glory is not never falling but in rising everytime we fall.

* Do not be hasty in taking a decision, examine and thorough.

* Never Give Up On Your Dream.

* STILL THE SPIRIT.

* Winner never quit and quitter never win.

* Something of value sometimes can not be judged from the outside, but judged from the memory of something that happened to them.

* Hope is a good thing. Maybe the Best of things. And no good thing ever dies.

* Be your self is great, than someone else to be.

* If you are soft on yourself, then life will be hard on you. However, if you are hard on yourself, then life will become soft.


* There's no secret ingredient. To make something special, you just have to believe it's special.

* Be careful with your mind, because they will be words. Be careful with your words, because they will become a habit. Be careful with your habits, for they will become character. Be careful with your character, because he will determine your fate.

* When is the best in your life where when you start to give forgiveness to others.

* Sometimes the simplest idea can make the biggest difference.

* Failure is success delayed.

* Life is shared, even if you had no apa2 again, at least divide your smile to everyone.

* It is our choice, more than our abilities, that determine who we really are.

* Do not delay clipper can be done today.

* Promise to think the best reply, do only the best reply, then that reply is not possible to reality.

* Better late, than none at all.

* Take advantage of non-desirable events.

* Failure is the beginning of success.

* Success can only be achieved by orang2 wrote BELIEVE and fight.

* Learn to recognize their own shortcomings.

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A collection of motivation words 1

* Do not look at the past with regret, do not also look to the future with fear, but look around you with full awareness.

* Resolution without action is futile, a dream without action also will be in vain.

* You are ready to leave the past. For most people, their workplace today is the safest communities and most reliable. When you leave the nest, you can not go back there again. Are you ready to build a new nest with a new community? Began to leave all your past routines that you do not like and that certainly will not bring you achieve all your dreams a new start with new actions.

* We must begin to dare to determine our own destiny, ready to face and take all risks that arise and can remove the shadow of our past failures. Start a new leaf, to live with optimism and a new spirit, then all the dreams will become reality.


* If one expects a change in his life let alone in the new year, then that person can not expect other people or external factors change for themselves. people must be willing to change himself first. If we expect better things, of course we can not continue to maintain the habits that are less effective in the previous year, to be used in the new year.

* Time will never come back, but time is always a chance.

* The opportunity does not come twice (If there is a chance or there that came to mind, immediately do!). Note: there are opportunities that come many times in the events / circumstances.

* Today should be better than yesterday, tomorrow should be better than today.

* Do not ever give up because whatever happens there is always a way out. We are born not as a failure but a winner.

* Try not why, had thanksgiving, failed to be experience.

* Whatever your struggle today would be no results. Do not give up!

* "You are what you believe in". You are what you believe. if you believe you are that A, then you are A, if you believe your Z, then you Z. Believe in Yourself.

* All big things start from small steps.

* A winner does not let himself be defeated by circumstances.

* Do not have the constraints as an excuse, but make a challenge in life.

* Do not look for friends who make you feel comfortable, but look for friends who make you continue to grow.

* More easily judge other people's mistakes than the error itself.

* Do what are you going to do pertimbanganlah because sometimes that will make you to never start.

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Did you make your dream book?

Friends of successful motivational blog, you already refer to how a teenage boy with amazing success writing dreams. Now the question, did you make your dream book?
If not, TAKE ACTION is now and make your dream become a book of history books worth reading success.
You have no choice but MUST be SUCCESS!
Companions blog successful motivation you agree if I say you have no choice but HAVE SUCCESS?


As I have always said we are all destined to succeed. The proof of our successful attainment are created from the sperm cells are persistent beat incredible 250 million other sperm cells that fertilize the ovum and be us. We have won in the womb of nature so do not be a loser in the natural world. But the fact so many people are successful but many more are not successful alias failed. Is that distinguish them with you and me? Are they so special and different? The answer is of course not.


Remember we all have the potential and the same opportunity to succeed. Believe it. If they can why we do not. It's just a matter of time. Because it set in your heart that I must succeed.
You have no choice but MUST be SUCCESS! because why? Because we have the opportunity to live a very short time. So use that time there was as productive as possible and determined that if others can succeed why are we not?

So is there any instant and quick way to get like them? The answer is no. Because it takes the process a success, time and patience. Success will not come itself. Success does not come just like that. Some people are successful after 5 years. There is a new success after 10 years or more. But actually you can succeed more quickly and do not need to wait until 10 years or more if you know how.

Then how?
Surely that's what you want to ask instead. Relax ... in this paper I will give 2 easy steps to accelerate your success.

1. Define the success of your inspiration and ATM's only.

This is one of the best ways and is very effective to accelerate your success. Because you can optimize most of your time. Learn how he can succeed, copy and modify according to your own version. Just do not copy the raw - raw only. Since you will be considered a poor plagiarist.

2. Have a very strong reason why you should succeed.

By having a very strong reason, you have gasoline that will always burn your motivation to be and COMPULSORY SUCCESS.
As if - if you can not live if you do not succeed. Because you basically have no choice but MUST be SUCCESS! You Got NO CHOICE BUT SUCCESS.

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Have You Make Your Dream Book?

Companions blog motivation success, was the extent to which the influence of the subconscious mind the power of your life? Let's act and TAKE ACTION bolsters forces your subconscious mind now! Because 3% of people - people who succeed in life is significant - people who really - really a serious boost the potential and power of his subconscious mind! Did you include the 3% it?

Have You Make Your Dream Book?
Companions blog motivation success, helieve you if I say nothing happens except in the beginning was a dream? If you answer yes, did you make your DREAM BOOK!
If not, please refer to my writing this time:)

Imagine if you are allotted only until age 10 or 20 years ahead, what will you earn?
Achievements and what work you want to offer to humanity? How about - some people will commemorate 100 years you will come when all treasures, your friends and family had also gone?


This need to formulate from now.
Building the kingdom of dreams and planning for the future is very important. Without it we would walk without enthusiasm.
Therefore whatever your dreams you need to write and record in your DREAM BOOK.
What is the point of that dream book?

Dream book is a book containing a list of desires (Wish List) you want to accomplish with a certain time limit.

Every one wishes had come true. You check, then began again to TAKE ACTION you dream items until all your wishes and dreams in the book that dream come true.

This is done by John Goddard when he was 15 years old, in 1940. When most of us are still learning, playing and even busy with activity without purpose. John Goddard instead took the yellow lined paper and wrote down 127 dreams of her life. This paper became the blueprint for life.

In 1972, when he was 47 years old. He has reached more than 103 dreams and goals that ditargetkannya. Success story of John Goddard was later to become one of the most widely reprinted throughout history!

Friends of successful motivational blog, you already refer to how a teenage boy with amazing success writing dreams. Now the question, did you make your dream book?
If not, TAKE ACTION is now and make your dream become a book of history books worth reading success.

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Power of your subconscious mind

Friend, sometimes in life we often pray. But more often our prayers seem not answered. Is there something wrong with our prayers? Or God did not want to grant our prayers? Maybe we need to stop for a moment. Taking time away to evaluate our life's journey. Because perhaps of prayer - prayer that we prayed tucked desire - a desire that may be unfair to God and others.

Remember, God may delay, but he was never refused. Here's what you should understand. Mark has provided examples of how the prayer should correct it. Mark prayer reminds me of a fragment of a prayer from a wise man who said ...


"God, give me courage to change what can I fox. Give me the patience to accept what I can not change.
And give me wisdom and the wisdom to distinguish the two. "

Companions blog motivation success, which is really a prayer you prayed for this?
Powerful Step Strength boost your Subconscious Mind!
Companions blog motivation success, did you realize that our subconscious mind has a huge influence in life?

Even our lives is a manifestation and result of choices - choices that we input in our subconscious minds.

Surely this is what you want to ask instead.

Relax ... in this paper I will give a simple 2-step jump and blow up the power of your subconscious mind.

1. Auto-suggestion is keep yourself - again.

Desires and our dreams are important information for our subconscious mind. For the desire, passion and powerful dreams recorded in the subconscious mind will be the driving force that will move us to TAKE ACTION to realize our dreams. Wishes, desires and dreams - these dreams that will trigger our spirit to do something extraordinary. This is called the auto-suggestion.

Auto-suggestion made consciously and repeatedly - again will knock on the door of consciousness (heartknock) us. If done regularly and continuously then you will be amazed that so many things - things which are so extraordinary happens in your life!

2. Visualize your dreams as real as possible.

If you want something then the subconscious mind will describe what these dreams. By way of visualizing the first dream, created a masterpiece so many extraordinary in this world. Something imagined and visualized as real as possible and as - if ALREADY OCCURRED incredible powerful moves our souls and bodies ACTION to what we believe it. That is why Napoleon Hill once said "What your mind conceive and you believe, you could achieve!" what our thoughts are feeling and think we believe, we certainly can make it happen!

This visualization technique is performed by comedian Jim Carey's success.
A passionate desire - keen to become a successful comedian made one day write a considered piece of paper checks worth U.S. $ 10 million. "Check" with the date at the top continued to keep in a pocket.

When experiencing difficulties in his career. He is often alone into the hills and looked at the city of Los Angeles as he pictured himself as a successful Hollywood movie star. He then looked back to check he had written it. Who would have thought a few years later he signed a contract worth more than U.S. $ 10 million for the film The Mask. Interestingly, on the date of "check" was made near the date of the contract payment check!

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Success

Conscious + Learning + ACTION + Keep To Develop Self = Success

How do you think? Or you have a different opinion, please presented here ..

Important is the meaning of a failure do you think?
Companions blog motivation success, important is the sense of failure in life?
If you answer yes. How important do you think the meaning of failure?
So what to do with success?
Let's explore together.

True failure and success are like two sides of a coin inseparable. Complement one another.
There is no success without failure.
Failing that important. Even very important. Why?
Because we will never understand the significance of a success without the prior failure of the process.


If you have never failed in life.
That means you never take any action to succeed.
Even this is called a true failure.
But the question is, are there people who never fail in life?

People - a large and successful people in this world has to give an example and a model of how a failure, defeat and trouble came and went a whip in the process of self-development to the summit of success. Even the "98% of success is shaped by the failures and mistakes." Such advice Soichiro Honda.

Successful people never shrink and recede only step because they face failure in life. Because they realize that success will not be beautiful and worth without any failures. Therefore, if you want success, you must be willing to fail! Because if not, you are not entitled to and does not deserve to succeed. Not believe? Consider the facts - the following facts.

History records how the Thomas A. Edison, the inventor of the incandescent light bulb used should fail 10,000 times before successfully creating inventions - inventions and outstanding work. If if Edison quit and give up the steps to 9999, we certainly would never have known the name of electricity and light bulbs.

Colonel Sanders, founder of Kentucky Fried Chicken 1009 times rejected when trying to sell the idea to sell fried chicken recipe in particular.
Werner von Braun had been put through research and experiment as much as 65,121 rockets flying times and all failed.
Charles Dickens sent hundreds of articles that never appeared mass media. The same thing happened with Walt Disney who fell up 302 times.

Did they give up?
No way. Sanders recorded precisely with a very brilliant success. Werner noted as the inventor of the rocket.
Charles Dickens became a leading writer in the world.
Even Walt Disney himself so far into the entertainment industry and the pride of the American giant project.

So, who says that failure meant the end?
Failing that it is important that we survive.
Failure is not an end of everything - everything but a prelude to greater success in the future!

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Only Five Minutes

The woman pointed to a boy, "that's my son."

The boy was playing on the glide board.

"That's wonderful" said the man. "That's my son" he pointed to the boys who play swing.

After a while the man looked at his watch and then took her son to come home.

However, his son whimpered "yes 5 more minutes dad?"

The man nodded. Five minutes passed. Then he took her son to come home.

Again, his whining "5 minutes lg ya dad?"

The man nodded again. The woman who sat beside him admiration and praise how patient he was as a father. Men then talked about the older son, was killed while cycling nearby. He never took the time to her son. He will not do it again against the second child.

"Maybe my son thought he was getting additional playing time, but I'm the one who can be extra time to enjoy the time with him and be happy with it.

Life is not a race. Life is a priority. Give 5-minute extra time on our loved ones. Surely we will not regret it forever. What priority do you have today?

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Motivation Words added spirit

1. Do not go for looks because it can deceive. Do not go for wealth even that fades away. Attracted to someone who makes you smile, because only a smile that can make the days of darkness seem bright. Hope you find someone like that.

2. Dream what you want to dream go to the places you want to go. Be what you want, because you only have one life and one chance to do the things you want to do.

3. When one door of happiness close, another door opened. But often we took so long at the closed door, so do not see another door opened for us.


4. The best friend is he who can sit swinging on the porch with you, without saying a word, and then you're left with the feeling of having a long conversation with him.

5. It's true that we do not know what we have until we lose it, but it's also true that we do not know what we've been missing until it arrives.

6. Look at everything through the lens of someone else. If it hurts you, it probably does hurt other people today too.

7. The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not change the picture we want. If not, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

8. The happiest people are not always have the best things, they just make the best of everything that comes along in life.

9. Maybe God wants us to meet with some of the wrong people before meeting the right person, we must understand how to be grateful for that gift.

10. It takes only seminit to assess a person, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

11. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who seek and those who try. Because only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

12. Love comes to those who still hope even though've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though've been betrayed, to those who still love even though've been hurt before.

13. It hurts to love someone who does not love you, but more painful is to love someone and never have the courage to express your love to him.

14. Never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still feel able, do not ever say you do not love him anymore if you can not let go.

15. Giving all your love to someone is no guarantee he'll return your love. Do not expect love in return, just wait until the love growing in his heart, but if not, be content it grew in yours.

16. There are things that really wants you to hear but you would never
hear from the people you expect to say it. However, do not be deaf to hear from people who say it with all my heart.

17. When you were born, you cried and the people around you smile. Live your life so that when you die, you smile and the people around you is crying.

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Your weakness is only temporary

Your weakness is only temporary, because you're reinforce it, but if you make an excuse for lack of good results, it becomes a permanent weakness.
You just close to them that you like. And you avoid people you dislike yag, but from him you will know a new perspective.
If you're correct, and if you're wrong, do not be too scared. Balance is determining the accuracy of attitude up your journey.
Do not ever tear down a fence erected without knowing why. Do not ignore the guidance of the good without knowing evil and then you can.
He who refuses to update his study ways that no longer produce, act like people who continue to squeeze the straw to get the coconut milk.

If you have not found jobs that match your talents, do whatever your job now. You will appear bright as the talent.
Whether you're waiting for a better job, before you actually work? Is a good job inappropriate for him who did not really mean it?
If we are only doing what we already know, when we will get new knowledge? We do not yet know is the door to knowledge.
Do not just avoid the impossible. By trying something that is not possible, you will be able to achieve the best of what you might achieve.
It's not that slow growth should you fear. You should be more afraid to not grow at all. then grow yourself with any speed.
You do not have experts to start doing something, because you build the skills of doing it. So do it!
People who stop learning will be the owner of the past. The people who are still learning, will become the future owner.
Is the builder affectionate love. Do not demand the attention and affection from your partner, if you do not start your claim.
You can give without loving. But you can not love without giving.
Doing more than you receive, in exchange, will make you pay more for what you do.
Change does not guarantee the achievement of improvement, but no improvement can be achieved without change. Then be friendly to change.
Pain in the past it happened only once. Jangna repeat the thoughts and feelings, because it would double the pain and weaken you.
We must be clever and sincere gratitude to accept delivery and not complain after receiving. But make sure you stand where the great gift.
People who are paid low quality, which are treated like gold as brass, because it looks bad. So be careful with your appearance.
You will not be able to avoid having to imitate. Then imitate, but make sure that you are difficult to duplicate. With it, you become original.
The more you want, the more who only live so desire. Focus on one goal will enable the achievement of many.
The greatest strength is the ability to beat stress choosing the right thoughts. You become more peaceful if you think is the way out of trouble.
Only people who can dare to be afraid, for courage is doing something that he feared. So, when he feels afraid, you have the chance to be brave.

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How prepared you are for it?

Your readiness to continue learning to be coupled with a readiness to accept all the risks, effects and consequences and readiness to keep striving, sacrifice and effort.

No matter what happens.

The best learning is learning to become a better person and the quality of seconds to seconds later every day.

No need to hurry

Because everything takes time, process and patience. The important thing is you still have the commitment and consistent to keep learning to improve themselves, change themselves, improve the quality yourself better than yourself every day.
That victory and true success. That is when you have been able to succeed himself and others.

Companions blog successful motivation, you are ready to continue learning? If you answer yes how your readiness to fight to realize the success you want? Let's just learn to be the best of yourself!

Self Development, Start From Where?
Companions blog success motivation, self-development is a word we often hear one day - today. And often very easy to say but the truth is not as easy as expected. If asked development starts from where? Do you know the answer? Curious and wanted to know, let us refer to with.

Basically everything that should grow and develop. If not then it will wither and die. So it is with humans. We should and must continue to improve and enhance the quality of self in order to keep survive, grow and develop in a world of increasingly rapid change and this development.

Therefore, self-development that is obligatory if you do not want to run over by the wheel speed changes increasingly quickly. Just like the sound of the famous law of nature is. "Who is the strongest, he would survive and stay alive"
The process of natural selection as Darwin's theory seems to apply also in the process of self-development.

Remember, if you do not change in the middle of the ever-changing world it is ready for extinction.

So the question is, in fact self-development where it started from, anyway? The answer is very simple.

Development starts from the self-conscious of the importance of self-development in order to be successful in life.

In essence, there must be awareness that development was not instant. Everything needed is not a moment process. Because the development is not easy.

After that?
Does just enough to realize it? The answer is certainly not. Consciousness is just the beginning. Next you need to keep learning and continue to act. Because if not, the awareness will not make you successful.

Only by continuing to learn and take action that will make you successful. Therefore, you must continue to move, act and do something to dream and dream - your dreams are not only end up as a flower bed alone. But the reality is so beautiful. Therefore, you have to keep moving to survive and keep ACTION to success.

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"During a determination, an iron rod can rub into the needle"

Clear determination necessary to overcome barriers and obstacles. Strength determination so incredible!

Successful people are ordinary people, but have fortitude amazing. With determination, we do not ever give up easily when pursuing ideals. Attitude determination means has confidence, patience, persistence, consistency, and morale continue without stopping.

Let's get used to build and have the determination, in order to achieve success we want.

Whatever we love turns out to have moved to live outside of love itself. He has his own line of that possibility at all we can not control just because we love it.

We who today are in a situation like this, is the result of a situation that is not entirely in our hands, but his kindness was always evident. So that's the nature of life is actually full of good intentions though perhaps not always the way we like.

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You Ready To Keep Learning?

Companions blog success motivation, life is to learn. Want to live? You must be willing to learn. Especially if you want to succeed and not just a living. Learning absolutely necessary. Because real life is a process of constant learning (Life is a continuous learning process) If you just live and be normal - normal. You have lowered the quality of your humanity.

Because why?

Because we created you and me not without cause. Plato said that "Everything that was created, certainly made for a reason."

Do you know for what you created?
Do you know the cause of your life?
If you know it do not stop there.
Not only know but follow what you know it.
Not only to succeed but really - really struggling for success. Therefore, to be successful you need to have bin obliged to keep learning.
Not only are ready to learn, but must continue to learn from the best.
Do not just simply learn from the ordinary - as ordinary income will be ordinary - too ordinary.
Chinese proverb says "Learning from a superior overnight better value than the study of normal - normal in many - years"

Learning should be an integral part of our lives.
Learning is like eating or breathing.
Learning is food for our spirit and soul.

We can learn from anything, anyone, anytime and from anywhere. Jonathan said "Everyone is a teacher. Every place is a school"
We not only can learn from conventional schools alone but also from the teachers' school life - the teacher is suffering, failure, success through life's difficulties.
Because once you stop learning that's when you have stopped growing.

The question now you are ready to continue learning?

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A Meditations About Success

Success has nothing to do with getting rich, success was not as complex / confidential as said Kiyosaki / Tung Desem Waringin / the secret, success does not need to be pursued, is YOUR SUCCESS! because the greatest success is in yourself.

How do you create out of the race millions of sperm to fertilize an ovum 1, it is your first success!

How can you be born with a member of flawless body, your success is the ...

When you go to school can even enjoy the S1 studies, when every minute there are 10 students drop out because it was not able to pay the fees, your success is third.

When you can work at the company's golden triangle of numbers, when 46 million people become unemployed, your success is fourth.

When you are still able to eat three times a day, at the moment there are 3 million people die of hunger each month, that's the fifth your success.

Success happens every day, but you never know it.

I was very touched when watching the movie Click! starring Adam Sandler, "Family comes first", so the last words to his son before he died.

I was so busy this Adam Sandler The pursuit of success, he did not even take the time to children and his wife, did not even attend his own funeral, his family was broken, his beautiful wife divorced him, his son so guns know who his father.

Success is always refracted by the bestselling author of the book to be kept so best sellers by making it successfully into yg complicated and difficult to find.

Success is not only about wealth, luxury homes, sports cars, Rolex, early retirement, become entrepreneurs, have a pool / helicopter, a beautiful wife like Donald Trump and luxurious resorts in the Caribbean.

True success is to live with gratitude for all the grace of God, true success is to enjoy and be grateful for every second of your life, when you're happy, you are completely happy, while at the time of your sad, sad you completely, then you have to be prepared again face the new episodes again.

True success is living right in the path of God, live well, do not cheat, let alone a scam, pious and humble.

Success was no longer wanted the wealth rather than poverty, no longer wanted the healing rather than hurt, true success is to accept full advantage of the situation, and you lack what it is with gratitude.

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Life lessons from Michael Jackson

Still fresh in our memory, about a few months ago, precisely on June 25, 2009, Michael Jackson, pop music king of the world, leaving us all. More than 1 billion people around the world, watching the funeral procession of the greatest entertainers of all time. I was to tears watching him leave us so fast. We are sad and moved, remembering what has been given by Michael in us, in this world.

Whatever people think about Michael, all agree to one thing, he wanted the world a better place. Through music, life and all his work, this is the 10 things he taught us:

What can we learn from the songs?

1. No matter whether you were black or white (Black or White)

Every day in the world, people fight over something. Problems of race, ethnicity, religion or culture, making us split. It's not countless human casualties due to war either directly or indirectly. Should, no matter whether we are black or white, we unite and love one another as human beings. People are born different from each other rather than to fragmentation, but for mutual respect.

2. Start with the people in front of the mirror (The Man in The Mirror)

Have you ever thought to change the other person? Or even think your life would be much better if the environment around you changes according to what you imagine. Our world is not perfect, but if you want to change it, you must start with yourself. Look at the front of the mirror and ask the person in front of the mirror to change. That's the only way. If we want to make this world a better place, look at ourselves and make a change.

3. Heal the world (Heal The World)

As quoted in the song: "There are children crying and people dying and our world is suffering." When the time people do not aware of the issue of global warming, Michael was the first to call this global warming issue. Now depends on us all to improve the world from global warming, poverty, epidemic diseases, education and other issues that bother us. Only concern is that we will make the world a better place for our children and grandchildren and the future of mankind as a whole.

4. You are not alone (You Are Not Alone)

The experiences and the sufferings you are experiencing is not much different from other people. There will always help, support and love to you, even if you currently do not have anyone.

If you read this article right now, means you're getting the support and encouragement.

5. Do not stop till you get enough (Do not Stop Til You Get Enough)

He took an extraordinary achievement in his life. His achievements as a never-ending journey. But the key to his success was that he did not stop. He worked very hard. One thing we learned from Michael: if you want something - you can have it for your strong desire and work hard to achieve it. So go on your business and never stop.

6. We are the world (We Are The World)

As often as we think that we are the world, then we will not feel lonely. The only way we achieve well-being is if we work together. One person suffers we all suffer, mourn one person we all grieve. We are all connected to each other as human beings, so that if there is one person injured, has become our responsibility to help him. As quoted in the song: "We are the world, we are the children and we are the ones who make a brighter day, so let's start giving."
What can we learn through life?

7. Do not let anything stop you from giving business to the world of light

When you become a great man and your light shines so bright, many people try to drop you. Do not let these people or whatever you put out the light and do not be afraid do we not have the opportunity to give something to this world. There are still many places in this world where you can shed light together.

8. It's okay to open your mask

Do not cover your true self. Let the people see who you really are and let the people see the natural beauty of your personal. Be yourself.

9. Learn to live with your situation actually

Maybe you hate your body, your face, your skin color or your hair. From this moment you stop hating your own physically. That is you! So how can you not love yourself? Your body is a gift from the Creator. Do you reject and hate His creation?

10. Restore your childlike nature always

You do not have to visit Fantasy World to play and laugh like a child. Let the nature of your childish. Jumped with his hands on and live with the joy of children. Look at the world with magic. Enjoy each day with gratitude.

Michael, thank you for what you've given us.
Rest in peace.
We will always remember you.

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The Golden Rule

I found an interesting article about the Golden Rule is the author Rick Walker.

"So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you"
Mt 7:12 - NIV

We have all heard the Golden Rule but do we really understand it, particularly with regard to our daily interaction with others?

I have been reading the discussion of "The Golden Rule" as presented in Chapter 16 of Napoleon Hill's "Law of Success" and have had an epiphany! I always took the Golden Rule to suggest that you will receive the same (or similar) response from others in similar fashion to the way you treat them. Treat people nicely and people will treat you nicely (and who doesn't want to be treated nicely?). Treat people poorly and expect to be treated poorly.

Is this, however, what is meant by "Do unto others ..." and, more importantly, who does it REALLY benefit the most?

Day to Day Interactions

In our day-to-day lives, we all interact with people; family, friends, business associates and strangers. And, so much of our day is influenced upon the outcomes of those interactions or, more specifically, how we respond to those outcomes.

If we take the transit system or, as an even more emphatic example, an elevator to work, we are very familiar with the manner in which we stay isolated in our separate world, interacting as little as possible with those around us. We have our protective barriers erected against possible interaction. We read books or the newspaper, plug ourselves into our iPods or work on our lap-tops. No end to the ways in which we can communicate the fact that we don't want to ... well, communicate.

If we have an exchange with a taxi driver, vendor or just bump into someone in the street, depending on the nature of both their response and our own, such an incident can set a "mood" for an entire day, if we let it. Some days, simply getting up "on the wrong side of the bed" in the morning can spoil a day, if we let it.

These are, I suggest, examples of how we might "manifest what we visualize into our lives", examples of how "attraction" and "magnetism" colours our interactions with people, how the "Law of Attraction" works when dealing with "mankind". Our mind set, our disposition dictates how we treat the world and, in return, how the world treats us.

"Such as are thy habitual thoughts, such also will be the character of thy mind; for the soul is dyed by the thoughts. Dye it, then, with a continuous series of such thoughts ..."
Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

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